How do you define success
Most people have their own definition of what
success means to them. I took the initiative of asking fifteen different
people how they would define success. I gathered the three most popular
answers and they said 1) career 2) person's status in life 3) material
items they have or have not.
Success is something a person acquires on how well they lived their life.
The first measurement of success is a person's career. Their job title will determine the salary.
People connect success with how much a
person earns. The higher the salary the
more successful he becomes in his career.
A person's career plays an important part in surviving in society. In order to survive in today's society, one
must have a job to support them self/and or support a family. Furthermore,
an increase in pay rate will give more of an advantage in buying a home, or
have insurance (health, auto, home), and provide food for their family. To get any assistance from the government is considered
and classified as low income families . You could visualize a
person with a good career, plus more income, equals better support for the
family. Society considers the family to be successful. They are
completely independent and " fully
sufficient on their own."
Families that are dysfunctional are
usually low income therefore; poor and
receives some type of government
assistant.
On the same token, people judge others for the things they have and don't
have. It does look like the person is materialistic. For
example; When a person drives a car like a BMW or a Porsche, people will show
more respect or treat them better than a person driving a Ford Pinto.
Those people want to improve their status and willing to acquire better cars
and bigger houses. The more expensive a vehicle cost the higher quality
and performance it possesses. "Oh, the Johnson's just bought a new
Jaguar XJ12, they must be earning a good income or they must be doing well?" It's
very superficial but society will and have been known to "Judge a book by
its cover" and attribute it to success.
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